Hi,

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Everything was good and we were happy. But recently he's began talking about a girl at work. He goes on and on about her and they text each other alot. The way he acts makes me suspicious, I know he is allowed girl friends but he deletes the messages as soon as he's read them.

Am I being paranoid or is he hiding something from me?

Gem25

Hello,

Firstly I think you have every right to be suspicious.The fact that he constantly talks about this girl and instantly deletes the messages she sends is bound to make you think he's hiding something.Maybe you should talk to him about it and air your concerns. Ask him to show you the texts, if he has nothing to hide and they are just good friends this shouldn't be a problem.  Also see if  he deletes messages he receives from other people as soon as he reads them, if he does maybe it's just a habit.

Good luck,

AP